Author: gareth
Coaching
Coaching Supervision
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Thinking Out Loud
October Notes: Give It Time
Some thoughts on silence, storming, supervision — and why our urge to be useful might be worth paying attention to. I’ve been noticing time lately. Meandering your mid-forties has a way of inviting such reflection! Not in the productivity sense — I’m not about to recommend a new morning routine, a better diary system or […]
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Thinking Out Loud
What My Dog Taught Me About Love and Loss – and Life
I didn’t expect my dog to become one of my greatest teachers. Certainly not in the messy, chaotic way he lived. And definitely not in the way he left. Simba was an absolute rascal.If his brother was the zen of zen dogs (with one exception: electric scooters), Simba was everything else. Full of life. Full […]
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Mentor Coaching
Thinking Out Loud
Becoming a better coach has made me less certain.
When I received my PCC credential, I was enormously proud of it. I still am. There are hours of coaching behind those three letters, along with training, mentor coaching, feedback, recordings, assessments and a fairly substantial amount of wondering whether I was actually getting any better. You would imagine, therefore, that becoming more experienced as […]
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Thinking Out Loud
I wrote a book. That still feels slightly ridiculous.
For more than sixteen years, I wanted to write a book. Sixteen years. I’m not entirely sure what qualifies something as a goal after that length of time because, at some point, presumably it stops being a goal and becomes part of the furniture: something you carry around with you, occasionally point at and say, yes, […]
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Thinking Out Loud
When the diary goes quiet!
“Resilience isn’t just about surviving adversity. It’s about embracing change.”
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Coaching Supervision
When the client gets under your skin
There are coaching sessions that stay with you for all the right reasons. Something shifts. The client sees something differently. You leave the conversation curious about what happened and perhaps even slightly surprised by it. And then there are the other ones. The sessions you continue having long after the client has gone. You replay […]
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Leadership
Thinking Out Loud
16 marathons in 16 weeks…
In the sixteen weeks leading up to the London Marathon, I ran roughly 42 kilometres a week. I hadn’t really thought about it in those terms while I was training; there were long runs, short runs, recovery runs, faster runs and plenty of runs that didn’t particularly resemble whatever was written in the training plan. […]
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